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DreamChaser responds:
Dear Jeanine,
The main reason your grandmother comes to your boyfriend and not to you is because he never knew her. He has no emotional involvement or attachment whatsoever, so it's easy to her to talk to him in his dreams. She can come and say what she needs to say, his soul will listen, and that is that!
You, on the other hand, are WAY too attached to be able to hear the messages she is giving. You would be wanting to ask her all sorts of things, and talk to her about things that have nothing to do with the messages she is trying to convey to you.
You also are trying too hard to have contact with her, and because of this, you are actually blocking her. It's sort of like if I said to you, Do NOT think about a pink elephant. What are you thinking about?
When we are open and blank, it's easier for us to let outside input like messages from spirits through. You are trying so hard to contact her that you are blocking her from being able to come in. You even do this in your dreams.
For now, accept her messages as they come and be grateful for them. In time you will be open enough to talk to her yourself.
Your waking up between two and three a.m. every night has nothing to do with those dreams. You have actually programmed yourself to wake at this time. The first few nights it happened, you were trying to figure out WHY it was happening.
Then you started putting a lot of focus on it and wondered if it was connected to your grandmother. Then you wondered if it would happen again, and you spent a whole lot of time thinking about waking up between two and three a.m. every night.
I propose you start focusing on sleeping the whole night through without waking up once. Every time you find your mind starting to worry about whether or not you'll wake up in the middle of the night again, turn it around and imagine sleeping through the night without any interruptions.
Watch what starts happening: you will find yourself sleeping the night through. Try it!
Yes, boys and girls, we are talking about the Law of Attraction again. It even works on things we do NOT want, like waking up in the middle of the night. This is another example of how we get what we focus on whether we want it or not.
For the next 24 hours, I would like you all to watch where you put your focus. Do not judge, just watch. It will surely surprise you!
I wish you peace-full, uninterrupted slumber.
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Astrea responds:
Dear Jeanine,
About a year ago, a close friend of mine lost her father. I never knew him while he was living. He had been battling Alzheimer's for almost ten years when he finally crossed over to the other side.
Because it was so hard for him to communicate towards the end of his life, he was more than ready to talk after it ended, but not to his family - to ME! What takes most of us a year to get going took Paul about a minute.
He arrived in my dreams two weeks after his death with TONS of advice, orders and predictions for the family. It was great to be able to tell them what he was saying because they had faith that it was actually him.
You see, he was smart enough to give me information I couldn't have known otherwise, so it was easy to talk to them about him without that pesky doubt creeping in. It took him a while to get it all out, but he did!
As difficult as it is for someone to brave the Veil, your Granny is doing it. It takes a lot of energy and desire from her to get to ANYONE. She doesn't want to frighten or alarm you with these messages, but she does need to get them to you any way she can.
It doesn't have anything to do with whether or not you're receptive to being contacted by her. She knows how it made you feel when she died, and she doesn't want to upset you again.
Sometimes our loved ones in Spirit can't bring themselves to see or speak to us even in our dreams, for they don't want us to grieve any longer. Other times, they fear they will frighten us if they appear directly to us. It's much easier for them to go to someone ELSE who is close to us but wasn't emotionally attached to them.
This is the way your Granny has chosen to get her messages to you for now. Your fiance didn't know and love her like you did, so he's one person removed from her. As time goes by, this will probably change and she'll start coming directly to you.
I'm so happy for you that your fiance can relay these messages. So many times, once someone has crossed over, we don't see them until we get to where they are. This is a way for you to have a window into her world.
I think it's wonderful! Lots of people would think it was nuts and would BLOCK those visitations and visions. Now you can see how sensitive your fiance is to you and to others.
This is something that you might not have ever known he could do - heck, he might never have known it either! You should encourage him to take his talent as a medium seriously.
It may please you to know that I think your grandmother heartily approves of you marrying him! |
